Working with Different Generations
Reaching and working with people from various generations needs to be intentional. Here are some strategies you can work through with your coaching clients.

Written By Gary Reinecke

ICF Master Certified Coach, Resource Designer, Mission Strategist : InFocus
How do you coach leaders to reach, engage, and train people in their 20s-50s?  Specifically, look at the chart below.  What generations do your clients struggle to engage the most from the list below?  

  • The Silent Generation: Born 1928-1945 (78-95 years old)
  • Baby Boomers: Born 1946-1964 (59-77 years old)
  • Gen X: Born 1965-1981 (43-58 years old)
  • Millennials: Born 1982-1997 (27-42 years old)

Tech for the Generations

One development that all people on most of the planet have been influenced by is the advent of technology.  You could argue, it is the singular most influential advancement that has had the greatest disruption since the Industrial Revolution.  This disruption has had tremendous positive benefits to how we do ministry, and work in general…

  • The speed at which we can do basic tasks has accelerated
  • Given power to the individual
  • Created the exchange of ideas as never seen before
  • Innovation of ideas has reached new levels
  • Allowed people to connect around the world in creative ways
  • Disciples are being made in ways never imagined before
  • Leaders are being developed using video technology and various related modalities:

With this disruption comes challenges on the ways we reach the younger generations especially.  Specifically those that are now growing up with technology and others who have a faint memory of how things were BI – Before the Internet.  Which challenges do your clients resonate with from below? 

The Impact

Here are some challenges from the impact of technology for reaching, engaging, and training Gen Z to Millennials:

  1. Makes more content available at earlier stages of development
  2. Ideas and ideologies are more accessible, making these generations more susceptible
  3. Entertainment can over-shadow substance
  4. Short sound-bites shape the way information is being processed
  5. Isolationism is negatively impacting social development

There are so many new ideas that are coming out to leverage technology in innovative ways. But what can be done personally in the relational realm of a leader, congregation, ministry or organization?

Personal Connections are Key

No single innovation will make a greater impact than helping your clients become great coaches and cultivate a coaching culture in their team, church, ministry or business.  Here are seven questions to help your client embrace a coach-approach and, to create a culture of coaching.

  1. What is your experience when you have been listened to carefully?
  2. How did that change the way you engaged?
  3. What can you take from that experience and pass-on to others?
  4. What are some tangible steps you can take in your development as a good listener?
  5. What can you do to sharpen your questions?
  6. Who can you introduce to this way of engaging with people?
  7. What do you envision for your team, ministry, or organization as you navigate the path to engage the next generation(s)?

Resources

A simple way to summarize what to do is: “Listen a little bit more – talk less!”  Following are resources to help you understand the distinctives of the various generations mentioned above!

generational leadership Also consider these training materials:

 

 

 

Photo by Pixabay

Photo by Alexander Suhorucov

Building Cultural Awareness for Effective Coaching

If you are working to make your coaching client list more diverse, the best place to start is with a refresher in cultural sensitivity

Coaching for Resourcing 

Fighting a scarcity mindset by helping clients see God’s provision.

A Military Strategy for Coaching Ministries?

Big changes are needed to halt the decline of the Church in America. However, even small changes can be met with heavy resistance. Many pastors have tried to implement healthy changes and admit that it feels almost impossible. Here is a strategy that might help.

The Organized Coach

If you are coaching more than a handful of people, you know it can get hard to track all the moving parts. Here’s how you can keep it all organized.

2 Areas of Your Coaching Business to Consider

You’ve got the basics of your coaching practice in order. You are a trained coach and you have a business plan in motion. But things are moving slower than you hoped. Here are some intangibles and nonessentials that, with some attention, might be just what you need. 

The Prepare—Engage—Act Coaching Cycle

The three-phase cycle that is the foundation for successful coaching sessions.

Building your coaching practice

There is a lot of information swirling about the internet on how to build a coaching practice. Some of it is good and some not so much. What is actually necessary for you and your coaching practice? Here are some misconceptions and 7 essentials for success. 

Helping clients define discipleship

Here’s a great exercise I picked up from Dave DeVries. If your client wants to make not just disciples, but disciplemakers– people who can make other disciples– here is an exercise to try… 

Avoiding vision whiplash 

If your coaching client’s ministry is constantly evolving their staff and congregation may be experiencing vision whiplash—and it’s painful. Here’s how to help…

What to do when your client is stuck 

You have a coaching client who just isn’t moving forward on their goals. It happens to all of us. These 7 principles will help you troubleshoot and realign to gain momentum.